The Book of Blessings and Rituals

I’m so happy to have gotten my hands on a copy of the eagerly awaited “The Book of Blessings and Rituals” by Athena Perrakis, Ph.D. The woman behind Sage Goddess, Athena is a genuine, warm, and prolific individual, and I was eager to see what would be in this collection. I was pleasantly surprised to find it’s a cozy, readable 6×8 book that’s a joy to read in bed or on the couch with a glass of wine. It does have, as I expected “special” blessings and invocations for sabbats and other events, but it’s also full of projects and “ordinary” rituals to make daily life more magical. It’s also perfect for the eclectic seeker who doesn’t want to be limited to a specific path. Don’t miss this one!

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About the Full Moon

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Last night was the Full Moon in Virgo, and here in New England this one was kind of special. We haven’t had much snow, and when we have, it hasn’t lasted long. So it’s really cool to look out the window on the night of the full moon and see the light of the moon, which is reflected itself, reflecting off the smooth layer of icy snow. Everything was so bright, we had to close the curtains so the light wouldn’t keep us up!

Working with the moon should be easy, you’d think, but people tend to complicate it. I’ve heard and read so many things about what you’re “supposed” to do on the full moon — how it’s time to harvest what you’ve worked on, or time to do rituals on fullness and completion. But one thing seems consistently true for me — it always seems to catch me by surprise. I mean, really — it’s just TWO WEEKS after the new moon. Who can get anything done in that time? When the full moon comes around, that’s about when I go “oh, crap, that STUFF I said I would do.” 

This is why we chose to work with the moon the way we do in our Moon Journal. The full moon, for us, isn’t about being DONE, but about putting in that final push to be done. Its focus is “To Will,” and its first journal prompt is “You have spent the past two weeks working at integrating something new into your life. Write about how you might keep your focus in this area strong.” 

This is always such a relief for me, having come from moon-shaming work in which I usually get to the full moon and just think “shit.” It’s ending up being totally natural to look at what I’ve done the past two weeks in an honest, gentle fashion, and then just think of how to put in the final push, key up my will, and really DO THE THING. The full moon isn’t a time to be done, but a time to illuminate, gently, what you’ve accomplished and commit to bringing it forward in your life. The moon cycle is gentle and constant, so you always have more chances.

Working with the moon is not a linear process of success or failure, as we’re used to in life. It’s about keeping at it, and making changes slowly but surely. We’d love to hear how you work with the moon, and if you’ve used our journal what you think of it. 

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Basic Wicca and Paganism

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We say ‘A’ philosophy, not ‘the’ philosophy because one of the wonders of Wicca/Witchcraft is that it is (certainly Should be) up to the individual to decide on how they view things. There are certain common things though that help define a Wiccan philosophy. This post addresses the idea that the individual is all important. We each have an obligation to ourselves to survive as living beings. We must obtain food, water, and shelter in order to survive.

We must do this survival thing while ‘harming none’. This makes sense since there are many other humans and each one has the same obligation of survival as we do. Working together and allowing each person to make their efforts simply makes sense.

So as Wiccans or Witches whether beginners or experienced we must make sure that we are all set with our own survival. It seems that for survival needs we would need to practice as Solitary. Others have their own needs. Once we are comfortable that we will survive, then we can move on to other things. When in a Coven, the focus will be on intentions for the group as a whole, which is nice because being social is good and there is more energy with the right group of people together.

However, though a Coven could be nice, we must always remember to take care of ourselves. Take for example the Sabbats. These holidays are nice for celebrating if possible with the Coven, or friends and family or whatever combination of people. But it is very important, to take at least a moment; perhaps your own ritual, or meditation, in which to pay attention to your own needs and feelings at the particular time of year. 


Transition to Imbolc

The time between yule and imbolc can be cold, dark, and difficult in much of our country. Many of us suffer from post holiday blues, not to mention bills, which are definitely part of the blues!  The days are short, and even though they’re getting longer, we haven’t really seen the difference yet. It’s just cold, through and through, and by now we’re pretty tired of it. 

Many of us celebrate the Sabbats, but those are only eight days out of the year. How do we acknowledge and connect with the rest of the days of the year? And how do we transition from one to the other? The transition from Yule to Imbolc is both easy and difficult. Some transitions are subtle, but not this one. For Yule we tend to put up decorations and get together with family (whether we want to or not)–and then we take the decorations down and go back to being alone, and find ourselves plunged into the darkness of the post-holiday season.

This is why Imbolc is a truly important sabbat, even if it’s sometimes hard to relate to for those of us who live in the cities or the suburbs. We don’t see the lambs being born or the first stirrings of nature that promise Spring is coming.

Regardless, Imbolc can be viewed as sort of a waypoint on the journey to spring. It’s precisely in these dark days of transition, when it’s cold and dreary, and there’s not enough sunlight, that we need a definite signpost that we’re making our way to the light.

In the meantime, we’re sitting in front of the fire, biding our time, and waiting for that half-way point. Count your blessings, and find points of joy and hope — even in the dead of Winter this is possible.


New Offering — Tarot Readings!

One of our deepest loves is divination — working with tarot, oracle, runes, and anything else that helps us connect to the busy thrum of the universe. We like to joke that we don’t believe that tarot predicts the future, but it predicts the past and the present. Seriously, though, how many of us really pay attention to what goes on in our lives to the extent that we can really home in on what we might be creating for the future? Don’t ask us what’s going to happen–tell us what you WANT to happen, and we’ll help you visualize what’s going on in your life so that you can change what you need to in order to get what you want.

Currently we only do email readings but we are experimenting with Zoom readings. Check out our offerings on the top menu, and see what you think!

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Spring Cleaning


Spring Cleaning

Less than a week away from Spring, and we’re buried in snow. Supposedly there’s even more next week. Spring in New England is always…weird. Much of the time it doesn’t even feel like Spring until it’s close enough to be thinking of Summer and yet, despite the hesitance of nature, there’s a definite change.

The hens are laying, the roosters are louder, and the teenage boy is going out in shorts. The snow is bright with the intensity of the sun, and daylight savings makes evening karate classes a little easier to go to. It’s time to shake off the winter funk, and here’s a few ideas for how to invigorate your life for the new season ahead:

  • Soak up some sun. We don’t really think about balancing masculine and feminine energies much, though many of the myths and celebrations we’ve inherited and incorporated into our practices have this as their center. We put our magical tools out to take up the moonlight, but what about us, the magician? Draw in some of that solar energy. Your vitamin D levels will love you for it.
  • Pick a new, invigorating scent of essential oil and make some room mist, or make a cleaning spray and clean your counters and surfaces with it. We’re fans of geranium or grapefruit. Mrs. Meyers has a wonderful line of geranium-scented products.
  • Have an “Empress day.” I’ll admit it – dusting and tidying is no fun, especially if you have way too many a lot of crystals and tarot decks and candles, and any form of pet with hair. Everyone talks about spring cleaning like it’s all or nothing, but instead, think of it as a how, not a what. Tend to your tools like nature tends to the seedlings huddled in the soil waiting to germinate. Love them up, and think of greeting them like the spring sun instead of being goal-oriented about it.
  • Cleaning your house is only one aspect of spring cleaning. Think of the elements — earth, air, fire, water, and spirit. What’s even just one thing you can let go or change in these aspects of your life? Is there something about your physical body you need to work on? What about a thought, a creative block, an emotional issue, or a spiritual practice that isn’t working? Make way for the new.
  • Open your spiritual windows. One of the cheapest and most effective ways to bring new life into your practice is just to let other people and ideas in.

What are some ways you like to greet the spring?

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Fighting Cabin Fever

Come Spring! The Sun is near but the snow keeps falling here in New England. It is getting difficult staying indoors too much. We took a day trip to Portland Maine yesterday and that sure helped a lot.
Now more snow. Ugh. We try to take the Vitamin D to replace the lack of sunshine but it’s just not the same.

Ostara hope is very near! I will remind myself of that every day now.

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Yule Season

Blessed Yule approaches bringing with it the shortest daylight time of the year.

This is such a special time where it is nice to reflect on our lives, what we have done, and what we will do next year. We can place an evergreen tree in our home to remind us of the beauty of summer, and to give us hope at its return. We can place lights and decorations to reflect the joy of life, and the light of the Sun which is now beginning its return.To make sense of this time of year, it can work well to combine the Winter Solstice, Xmas, and New Year’s into one holiday season of Yule. Of course, it is all about the Solstice, but in our current society, Xmas has taken over the traditions of Yule. Basically, replacing the word Sun with son, and moving the date a bit.However, we can blend the 21st into the 25th in our hearts and minds as the celebration of Yule. And since the Solstice also marks a beginning for the coming year, we can also bring our current calendars New Year’s Day into the same holiday season. It makes so much more sense when these three dates are combined into one Yule Holiday Season. And now, if someone says ‘Merry Christmas’, ‘Happy Holiday’ or whatever, you can return the greeting kindly but in your mind you will hear ‘Blessed Yule!’.


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Blessed Samhain

Wheel of the Year

Wheel of the Year

Samhain is here again! For many, this is a favorite time of the year. The Samhain Sabbat is one of the most fun and party like holidays of the year. There are a couple of reasons for this that I can think of. Perhaps you can think of others?

One reason is that Samhain and the following day bring in the New Year for many Wiccans and Pagans. Why is this? It is from the Celtic culture. They used to count the end of the day at dusk, with the new day starting in darkness. Similarly, Samhain is like the dusk of the year; it is a halfway point from Mabon to Yule. At Samhain as at dusk we start the descent into ‘darkness’. Think of Yule as midnight, the darkest time of night with Imbolc at dawn.

Another reason for Samhain being one of the most fun Sabbats, is that it is a time where many feel more in tune with ancestors and those who have passed. This acts as a welcome relief to our inherent fear of death perhaps. Some of us celebrate with fearful costumes just for the fun of it. But it is also a way of facing fears. We face death in a sense at Samhain and party at the same time.

Of course, there are many who celebrate in a more serious fashion. The dumb supper, communing seriously with the beloved dead, and other similar activities.

What is your preferred way of celebrating Samhain?